Quiz

Are You a Good Girlfriend?

A. You are on your way out with your girlfriends, and your boyfriend calls you and asks you to come over. What do you do?

4.) Drop your girls and go right over, your man comes first.
3.) Promise him that you’ll come right over as soon as you’re done hanging out with your girls.
2.) Tell him that you already have plans, but if you have some time later on you’ll try to stop by.
1.) Tell him that you already have plans, he should have called earlier, and you’ll see him when you see him.

B. It’s your birthday and your boyfriend just loss his job, he has no money to buy you a gift but he still wants to spend time with you. How do you feel?

4.) You’re not upset at all; material things don’t matter to you. All you need is his time.
3.) You’re a little disappointed because you were looking forward to the gift, but whatever, spending time with him is more important.
2.) You are very upset; he doesn’t have a gift for you? Well you’ll still hang out with him, but he might get a little attitude.
1.) WHAT, NO GIFT? He better not call you until he gets a job and gets you a gift.

C. Your boyfriend’s car just got impounded, and he needs help getting it back or else he can’t get to work or school. But you had your eye on a Louis Vuitton clutch, what do you do?

4.) Immediately shelf your purse idea and give him the money he needs, your LV can wait, his car is more important.
3.) Agree to give him half of what he needs now, that way when you get paid next week maybe you’ll still be able to get the Louis Vuitton.
2.) Get your clutch now, and the next time you get paid you’ll consider helping him out.
1.) Immediately get your purse, he won’t get any help from you, he better figure something out.

D. Your ex calls you and wants to get together for lunch, just to catch up. You tell your boyfriend about it and he hates the idea and doesn’t want you to go. What do you do?
4.) Well that’s that, you don’t go. If your boyfriend doesn’t want you to go then that’s the end of the story, your ex shouldn’t have wasted his opportunity.
3.) You don’t see the big deal, but if your boyfriend doesn’t want you to go then you’ll respect that. You tell your ex that maybe you two can catch up another time.
2.) He’s completely overreacting. You’re still going to go, you just won’t tell him about it, after all what he doesn’t know won’t hurt him.
1.) FORGET HIM! You tell your boyfriend that you’re going to go anyway, whether he likes it or not. Who does he think he is?

E. You get a job opportunity to work in Paris for 6 months; you’ve always wanted to live in Paris! Then you find out that your boyfriend just had a death in his family and he’s taking it really hard. What do you do?

4.) You don’t go, how can you leave him right now? Paris will always be there later but your man needs you right now?
3.) It’s a tough decision, but you decide that this is a once in a lifetime opportunity and you have to go. But first, you make an arrangement with your boss so that you can come home once a month, and you promise him that you’ll call every day.
2.) You feel bad for him but you still go, but you promise to call.
1.) You don’t give it a second thought, that’s too bad about his family member but this is Paris we’re talking about! He’ll be fine.

F. You hear a rumor that your boyfriend cheated on you, but the girl that you heard it from is obviously jealous of you and he’s relationship. What do you do?

4.) You don’t even give it a second thought. You know that your boyfriend would never cheat on you, plus this girl is jealous. You disregard it and don’t even bother bringing it up to him.
3.) You don’t believe it, but you figure that it’s worth asking him about it. He denies it and you immediately let it go, you didn’t think so.
2.) You can’t believe it! You confront him and he denies it and but you don’t really believe him, he’s such a liar.
1.) HE THINKS HE CAN CHEAT ON YOU! You immediately break up with him without asking him, what’s the point, why would she lie?

G. It’s Thanksgiving and your boyfriend really wants you to spend the day with him so you can meet his whole family, but you know that your mother will be upset if you don’t spend Thanksgiving with her and your family. What do you do?

4.) You spend Thanksgiving with him and his family. Your mother will get over it, plus you see them every day.
3.) You decide that you’ll spend half the day with his family, and the other half with your family. That way everybody wins.
2.) You tell your boyfriend that it’s important that you be with your own family so you can’t go with him. But you tell him that you’ll think about Christmas.
1.) You are not spending Thanksgiving with his family, you don’t know them. Your family is the most important.

H. It’s your boyfriend’s birthday, what do you do?

4.) You go all out. You get him a lavish gift, make him a romantic dinner, take him out and spend the whole day together.
3.) You get him a lavish gift, take him out and spend the day with him; you won’t even attempt to cook though.
2.) You get him a pretty nice gift, but you don’t have the time to cook, take him out or spend much time with him.
1.) You don’t do anything. What’s to celebrate?

Add up the numbers that correspond to your answers.

Your Results:

32-27:
You are a great girlfriend! You are loyal and dedicated to your guy and he is lucky to have you. You make his wants and needs a top priority, you trust him, and care a lot about him and that’s very important. However, don’t forget that even though your dedication is great, your wants and needs are just as important as his.

26-21:
You are a good girlfriend. You are pretty loyal to your boyfriend, but you don’t forget about yourself either. While you are important too, don’t forget that relationships are all about compromise. Sometimes you have to put your own wants aside for the greater good of the relationship.

20-15:
You are an okay girlfriend. You can be loyal at times, but at other times you can be somewhat selfish and inconsiderate. Remember relationships are about two people, not one. Compromise can be hard but if you care about your boyfriend it is necessary.

14-8:
You are not a very good girlfriend. You are pretty disloyal and selfish. You may actually care about your guy but you do not show it very well. If you do indeed care than you need to work on being more considerate or else he is bound to find someone else. If you do not care, then let him go and let him move own. Relationships are two-way streets.